Are They Having an Affair?

Aug 12, 2009 by

If you suspect your partner is being unfaithful, it’s vitally important that you get to the bottom of it ASAP. This doesn’t mean you should angrily confront them, no matter how tempting that may be. Before you even bring up the subject, you need to look at things as clearly and rationally as you can. Here are some things to ask yourself:-

-Have they been spending more time away from you recently? Perhaps working late and going out with their friends more?
-Has their interest in sex decreased?
-Are they spending more time looking after their appearance?
-Have they been spending money but not telling you what on?

Now any and all of these things could be completely innocent, but if you feel there is at least some cause to question things, then the best course of action is to sit down and express your concerns to your partner. Make sure to stay calm and not to accuse them of anything. From here, you can gauge their reaction to your concerns, and they will bring you closer to figuring out if your suspicions are possibly true.