Maybe you prefer to call it ‘sweeping things under the rug’. Whichever one you prefer, this is something that is often prevalent in a failing marriage. But why is this? Is it just because it’s easier that way? Or is it because it’s actually the best thing for a marriage?
What lurks beneath your carpet(or rug if you prefer)? What does that elephant that rudely appears in the room from time to time represent? That can of worms that never gets opened? Here’s the thing – what if this issue was brought to the fore and could pave the way for the marriage to get better?… Read more
If things have been strained lately, you might have found yourself wondering if the time has come to call it a day, to end your marriage and think about filing for divorce. But you may also find yourself wondering if that is the right thing to do and at what point a marriage actually is ‘over’.
Be honest – has this question crossed your mind recently? This EXACT question. Think carefully. If it has – it’s a tell tale sign that you are already thinking in terms of ‘you and them’.
When things get tough, your attention can of course turn towards 
When we get married we all dream we’ll live happily ever after. Unfortunately, in the world we live in, relationships never go as planned, and when one of you goes astray, the fairytale comes to an abrupt end. However, just because you haven’t got the storybook ending you were hoping for, it doesn’t mean your relationship is over. Sometimes the relationship is worth saving, but only you can decide if that is an option for you. Take a long hard look at your relationship and see where things went wrong and if you feel you can eventually put it behind you and move forward.… 
Trust is one of the key factors of a successful and 
