Most wives would immediately feel upset and disappointed when their husband declares that he is unhappy. As someone that has been on the receiving end of this admission, you are probably no different. In actual fact though, this can be a positive thing. Why? Because he has been honest with you.
It’s much more worrying, and far more difficult to overcome problems when one(or both) of a couple pretend things are OK and keep going through each day not facing up to the actual reality of the situation. At a quick guess, I’d say 60-70% of married couples go through the motions without facing up to the truth, at least for a while – so being in the other 30-40% certainly isn’t a bad thing.… Read more